Earlier this month, I wrote a post about marriage and multiples which included a link to the MOST (Mothers of Supertwins) survey about Divorce and the Multiple Birth Family. After gathering survey data for a month, the preliminary results are available.
2,849 parents and guardians of multiples completed the MOST Divorce and the Multiple Birth Family survey. Most of them were mothers of multiples from the United States.
While divorce rates are often said to be around 40 or 50%, the survey results showed much lower divorce rates among survey respondents. Here are some of the details:
- That 4.3% of respondents divorced during the pregnancy or following the birth of multiples (indicating that the divorce rate among this group may not be as high as many have speculated.)
- Over 95% of the marriages were intact.
- About 82% of the respondents reported an overall positive level of marital satisfaction.
Specifically, the divorce rate was:
- 3.6% for parents with twins
- 5% for parents with triplets
- 9.2% for parents with quadruplets
- 4.2% for parents with quintuplets/sextuplets or multiple sets of multiples
Among those who divorced, the majority of their multiples were between the ages of 1 and 5 at the time of divorce.
To find out more about the survey results at the MOST website.
Another mother of twins and I were talking about how to find time for your relationship with your partner when you have young twins (our are both under 6 months old). The challenges of time, energy, money and childcare all making it difficult. How do you manage these challenges?